FED UP [Xxxvii]

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                They suddenly heard noise in the room.
  “What was that?” Mabel asked.
  “I don’t know,” her mother said.
                They paused and listened. They heard the noise again. This time Mabel heard Cynthia call her name.
  “It is Cynthia,” Mabel said.
                They rushed to the room and almost collided with Cynthia at the door.
  “What is the problem?” Cynthia asked them. “Why are you rushing?”
  “We heard a noise,” her mother said.
   “I hit my leg on the foot of the bed, lost balance and supported myself with the chair. I think that was the sound you heard.”
  “Hope you did not wound yourself?” her mother asked touching her.
  “Don’t worry, I am fine.”
  “You did not use your phone light?” Mabel asked her.
  “I was sleepy-eyed then,” she replied. “But I am seeing clearly now.”
  “Where are you going now?”
  “I want to ease myself.”
  “Hold on, let me fetch water for you.”
  “Has the one I fetched finished?” their mother asked.
  “Yes I used everything,” Mabel answered. “I am coming, let me fetch water.”
                Mabel took a bucket and went outside to the borehole in the compound and fetched water. Cynthia thanked her when she came back with the water and then went into the toilet. Mabel and her mother stood at the door of the toilet waiting for Cynthia.
  “Don’t lock the door o,” Mabel told her.
  “Why are you people standing there?” Cynthia asked. “Any problem?”
  “No problem,” her mother replied.
                They waited for her. When she was done, Mabel flushed it for her while her mother helped her back to the room to sleep. When she lay down, they went back to the parlour.
  “Now back to what we were discussing,” Mabel said to her mother.
  “What has been the reaction of your friends to your issue?” her mother asked Mabel when they sat down.
  “They have been calling and sending text messages.”
  “Have they been coming to see you?”
  “Most of them want to see me but I have not been in the mood to see them. I have only seen few who I met suddenly, just the way I met Maggie.”
  “The thing about friends in this kind of situation is that you really can’t tell who feels for you and who is happy about what you are going through.”
  “You are right. Even the stories they are telling are exaggerated. I don’t even know who to trust again. If Kemi could do that to me, anyone else can do worse things.”
  “What about the man who left you for her?”
  “I don’t know and I don’t care.”
                Her mother sighed.
  “I hope you have not called him?” she asked.
  “Call who?” Mabel asked.
  “Segun.”
  “God forbid. For what? Why should I call him?”
  “Good. He left you and should be the one to make contact if he values you and the relationship.”
  “Exactly. He should be the one calling and begging me. Even if he does, there is no guarantee that I will accept him back after all the humiliation he put me through. ”
  “Yes. No need selling your pride as a woman and appearing desperate. That was the mistake I made with your father. I appeared too needy.”
  “Really?”
  “Yes.”
  “What exactly happened?”
                Her mother sighed.
  “I was in my early twenties at the time and he was the best man I saw,” she said. “He was my everything. The things he said to me and the way he pampered me made me think he was for real. When he broke my heart the first time, I went running after him thinking it was my fault that he walked away. I found out I was pregnant for him and told him. He denied and abandoned me. My parents were ashamed of me. I was in school then so they could not reach me to do anything to me. They just stopped sending money to me. It was one of my senior cousins who took care of me until I gave birth to you. Your father did not contact me. From time to time, I would still write letters to him but he did not reply or even bother coming. People advised me to move on with my life. I tried.”
  “Why did you keep trying to get him back after what he did to you?” Mabel asked.
  “I thought I would never meet any other man like him.”
  “Was he that special?”
  “With the eyes of a young girl then, yes. But now, nothing special at all.”
  “Ok.”
  “I was really desperate to have him back. Then about 2 years later, he came back to me. He begged me and told me several stories that I later found out to be lies. I heard he had actually broken up with the other lady he was dating. I immediately took him back without hesitation. I was foolishly in love with him. Family and friends were disappointed in me. I lost most of my friends because of him but I didn’t care as long as I had him. Then he impregnated me again and ran. This time, he ran for real.”
  “You were still in school then?”
  “I had just graduated. I couldn’t continue doing my clearance in school so I got a menial job to take care of you and my unborn child.”
  “You really suffered o.”
  “My dear, it was not funny.”
  “So the man you call my father never asked after you again?”
  “No. Even when I gave birth to Cynthia, he did not even send me a dime to buy baby food. That was when my eyes cleared and what people had been telling me dawned on me. I took care of my medical bills from the money I saved from the menial job I was doing.”
  “Did you try reaching his family?”
  “Yes.”
  “What did they say?”
  “They said they are not aware of anything going on between me and him. They shut me out completely. I think it was because I didn’t have a boy. If I did, they would have claimed him immediately.”
  “Your parents did not accept you too?”
  “My father made sure no one in my family came to see me or send me money. Things become so difficult for me that I couldn’t afford to take care of you and your sister. I had to sell some of my clothes and belongings to buy food for both of you. People I turned to for help turned their backs on me. When I couldn’t bear it anymore, I had to reach out to my mum. I told her everything and she softened. She spoke to my dad day after day, telling him that I am still their daughter no matter what, that they can’t afford to lose me because a randy fool (as she called him) decided to deceive me and put me in the family way. He eventually forgave and accepted me back.”
  “You have not told me these details before. I only know that our father abandoned us for another woman.”
  “Yes I don’t want you girls growing with bitterness in your heart. You would end up hindering yourselves while the person you are bitter against is likely enjoying his life somewhere with his family.”

                Mabel looked at her mother’s face. Her eyes were teary with a ball of tear about dropping down her cheek.


(...to be continued...)
Nedu Isaac

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